Elderly Rainier Valley Neighbor Finds American Dream Just Beyond Reach

August 5, 2009

in Arts/Living,News,People In Your Neighborhood

Untitled-11By Julie Pham, Editor, Nguoi Viet Tay Bac News

Lam Vuong has been in the United States with his family for five years, just long enough to be eligible to apply for citizenship. But he fears his poor English will fail him if he takes the citizenship test.

Although Vuong speaks three dialects of Chinese along with Mandarin, Vietnamese, and French, he still finds learning English to be his “greatest challenge.”

While many recent immigrants face language barrier, in Vuong’s case, that problem is compounded by his age, financial instability, and lack of familial support.

At 68, Vuong considers himself lucky to have a job as a dishwasher at Ruth’s Chris Steakhouse in Seattle, where he has worked since 2007. His wife, 41, also works there part time.

With their meager wages the couple also supported their children, 18 and 21, while they finished high school. Both graduated this year and one found job at Walgreens and the other at a hospital.

“Things are even harder now,” said Vuong recently. “Our hours have been cut down to twelve a week.”

Because Vuong and his wife have not accrued enough work credits, they do not qualify for social benefits.

Vuong found his job at Ruth’s Chris Steakhouse after training in the Senior Community Service Employment Program (SCSEP) at the National Asian Pacific Center on Aging (NAPCA). The seniors train in different non-profit host agencies, which hopefully can lead to employment. NAPCA pays participants a stipend as they undergo job training and the non-profits get some additional help.

Donavan Lam, SCSEP’s program director, said Vuong is an “SCSEP success story” because he found private employment. But Vuong considers his “success” precarious.

“I didn’t want to come to the United States,” said Vuong. “But my children really wanted to come here for the opportunities here.”

This is not the first time that Vuong has resettled in a different country. He was born in China and immigrated to Vietnam when he was eight years old. He grew up in the Ben Thanh Market area of Saigon, where he was a bookseller before arriving in California in 2004.

Relatives in California sponsored Vuong, his wife and two children. Another child has already settled in Canada and one child remains in Vietnam.

The family first lived in San Jose, Calif. Because his wife was able to find factory work in Seattle, the family relocated to Washington.

Not long after arriving in Washington, Vuong signed up for SCSEP, which an acquaintance introduced him to. Vuong only trained for a few days with a non-profit before taking a janitorial job with a private company.

For nearly one year, Vuong worked the night shift for $3 an hour, slept in the morning, and took English classes in the afternoon at Helping Link, a non-profit that helps recent immigrants adjust to life in US.

Vuong considered returning to Vietnam, because “life is so hard here.” But it would have been an even harder struggle back home without U.S. citizenship and retirement benefits.

Instead, he returned to SCSEP, whose motto is “American Dream is possible for everyone, regardless of age,” and they assigned him to train as an office aide to Helping Link, which regularly works with NAPCA to provide job training for SCSEP participants.

Don Lam said that they wanted Vuong to develop other work skills, so after one year at Helping Link, they transferred him to work as a kitchen aide in another non-profit. By that time, his wife had been laid off from her factory job.

Because many SCSEP participants do not know how to use the Internet, NAPCA staff members look for job openings for their clients. They saw Ruth’s Chris Steakhouse posted a job opening.

“NAPCA told me to go, hurry, apply,” said Vuong. “They couldn’t provide me with an introduction. I had to apply myself.”

Vuong got the job. A few months into the job, Ruth’s Chris was so short-staffed that Vuong was able to refer his wife. They now both work at the restaurant as dishwashers.

“Mr. Vuong works really hard,” said David Mann, a manager at Ruth’s Chris. “He’s always got a smile on his face. He and his wife are a pleasure to work with.”

But with his limited English, Vuong finds it difficult to communicate with his co-workers.

“I just work until my shift is up,” said Vuong. “I never speak to anyone.”

Most of his work is easy enough to understand. For example, when he sees “French fries” written out, he knows he should prepare several crates of French fries.

Though he is thankful for the SCSEP, this “success story” is still worried about his future. These are fears no government social services can alleviate for the elderly.

“I know for sure that I will lose my job; I just don’t know when,” said Vuong. “In the two years that I’ve been here, I’ve seen many people come and go. But because of language limitations, I don’t understand why.”

“When the day’s shift ends, I don’t know if there will be one tomorrow,” Vuong added. “Here, I don’t know anyone. We have only a few friends, and no relatives. It’s lonely. It’s not like in Saigon, when if anything happened, many friends and family would rush to help us.”

If he loses his job, Vuong said would try to look for another one, because he wanted to “continue living the American way of life.”

“But if I can’t find work, if I don’t have anyone to help me, then we’ll have return to Vietnam,” he said, his voice despondent.

Photo/khoa Nguyen, Nguoi Viet Tay Bac News

{ 10 comments }

1 graham st 08.05.09 at 8:40 am

Nice story.

Vuong considered returning to Vietnam, because “life is so hard here.” But it would have been an even harder struggle back home without U.S. citizenship and retirement benefits.

I’m a little confused by this. Does he intend to work for a few years and then get Social Security and “retire”? Maybe move back to Vietnam and continue getting benefits from us? That would be nice for him.

My immigrant grandfather, who moved here at 22 is constantly complaining about other immigrants who move here late in life and still get the same government benefits as he does after working here for 40 years.

Either way, it makes me glad I grew up here and don’t have to make these kind of decisions.

2 ahow 08.05.09 at 10:55 am

Graham Street- Actually I am a little confused by your grandfather’s predicament. SS benefits are directly correlated to the $$ paid in by the recipient/recipient’s employer. So all things being equal (comparable earning rate), your gfather and his buddies can’t be getting the same benefits after 40 years vs. a couple…

Back to the story- I like it. I am the daughter of an immigrant and have many relatives who have moved here from S. Korea. They come here seeking the American Dream. And no doubt, ANY of them will tell you that moving here from elsewhere is a lot easier than the other way around. Look at all the assistance provided to Mr. Vuong along the way.

However this story speaks to the strange position many immigrants without advanced education/specialized skills face when they get here. Doing it legally means waiting (often a long time) for a VISA, and that precludes coming here in your 20′s when you’re full of spit and vinegar. They come here with children, often already in their teens. The parents are between countries. They can’t return home, because there’s nothing left for them there (often their children choose to settle here, as with Mr. Vuong), most of them have cashed out their life savings to come here.

However even with all the assistance available, it is very hard to make any kind of future here especially if your lot in life is that of a dishwasher with no job security. Learning a new language can be hard, even if you really try and already speak several. The ‘ol neurons just aren’t as flexible once you get closer to AARP age…

I liked this story because it made me think about so many people I know. They are more or less invisible because like Mr. Vuong, they just don’t say much. They are scared most of the time, and just stay quiet hoping that if no one notices them they won’t get into trouble or taken advantage of. They don’t really expect more assistance from anyone, they’re usually very grateful for all they’ve received. They just don’t want to be freaked out all the time.

3 graham st 08.05.09 at 11:43 am

@ahow – presumably though, he will be eligible for Medicare and a minimum SS benefit

4 ahow 08.05.09 at 12:00 pm

GS-
Yes, but after getting such a late start, and with the wages he’s earned as a dishwasher, that won’t be much. And I’m not saying that’s anyone else’s problem. Just a reality that he’ll have to face when he decides whether or not living here is going to be sustainable for him as he and his wife grow older and start needing more medical care and can work less. (I hate to refer to “him” so specifically, I don’t know “him”, but for the sake of discussion…)

And he’s no less a deserving recipient of those benefits than anyone else who has worked and earned them. He is legal, therefore paying taxes too. I’m not sure what diff it makes if he decides to retreat to his home country after he’s retired. Actually, he’d be partaking of his homeland’s medical system from that point on, so we might not want to discourage that…

5 graham st 08.05.09 at 12:12 pm

If you can collect a small SS payment and live in a place with a much lower cost-of-living like Vietnam then you can probably do relatively well compared to compatriots that stayed and worked there themselves.

As a part-time dishwasher, he’s probably paying next to nothing in taxes.

But I don’t begrudge him this, I would do the same thing in his position. I’m not sure there are any countries I could move to that would reliably improve my financial standing.

6 ahow 08.05.09 at 12:18 pm

Yeah, that’s what I mean by the SS calc having something to do with what you’ve paid in. He’s pays next to nuthin’=gets the same… Can probably make nuthin’ into somethin’ someplace else…as you point out.

Well, if you are done with your “earnin’ years” and want to kick back n make your $$ go further, jeez there are a few. Jamiaca, Costa Rica, Thailand, don’t get me started. There’s the occasional unrest/kidnapping or junta to deal with, but really what’s the diff when you live in 98118?

Aw, now I’m JK.

7 editor 08.05.09 at 12:29 pm

“There’s the occasional unrest/kidnapping or junta to deal with, but really what’s the diff when you live in 98118?”

You’ve got a point there, Ahow.

8 anon 08.05.09 at 6:13 pm

I’m not posting my name because my comment differs vastly from the ones already here and may not be real popular. I can’t help but feel this man is depressed and isn’t doing all he can to help his situation.

“But with his limited English, Vuong finds it difficult to communicate with his co-workers.

“I just work until my shift is up,” said Vuong. “I never speak to anyone.”

Come on, how does he think he’s going to learn the language if he never speaks to anyone? I work with a man from Vietnam and he’s eager to learn English and we correct him if he gets something wrong.

This man of the article isolates himself. I wish I could feel good about this story, but I can’t. He has a defeatist attitude, appears to, and with that mindset, he’ll never get anywhere.

I would tell him to start talking to people, talk talk talk and learn!

9 ahow 08.05.09 at 10:45 pm

“I’m not posting my name because my comment differs vastly from the ones already here and may not be real popular.”

Now that just sounds “isolated” and “defeatist”. We’re all just a bunch of monikers, but if you’re feeling hesitant to ID yourself with only a handle when speaking up in a virtual environment, just think about it…

I actually happen to agree with you that Mr. Vuong probably isn’t going to get anywhere with his current state of mind, but wanting to go home. And ultimately, his immigration success or failure is solely up to him.

For me, the value in the story is inspiring a little understanding, a little empathy, some patience…a little of what your lucky co-worker has obviously found.

It made me think of people I know in this situation, and how many times I’ve witnessed how often a thick accent is assumed to correlate to a low IQ, and what that does to someone trying desperately to integrate successfully. If you don’t think you know what I’m talking about, haven’t you ever observed someone mistake ESL for deaf?

Anyway, Mr. Vuong is ultimately going to have to handle Mr. Vuong’s situation. And upon a second read, his quotes do tend towards a desperately inert-waiting for help to befall him kinda tone. My family members who’ve made a successful life here have had to show a helluva lot more grit and self reliance. But they had to endure a helluva lot of ignorance and cruelty too.

I appreciate Mr. Vuong’s story as a reminder that we’re all vulnerable at some point in our lives. There are a lot of people like Mr. Vuong who could just use a smile or a patient conversation partner and they wouldn’t be nearly as completely freaked out as he sounds…

10 joshuadf 08.06.09 at 7:57 am

Aren’t there Vietnamese community resources? Get him some friends!

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